The Security Camera Test

Here’s an uncomfortable truth: every workplace runs on stories.

You’ve got a story about your team.
And they’ve got one about you.

We all do it. It’s how humans make sense of things.
The problem? Those stories aren’t always accurate — especially when there’s tension or conflict.

To handle conflict well, start by separating the facts from the story.

Here’s a quick test — The Security Camera Test:

👉 Think of someone on your team who’s frustrating you.
👉 Picture exactly what they’re doing — be specific.

Now imagine a neutral observer watching security footage of them.
Would that person come to the same conclusion as you?

If not, your story is running the show.

Use The Security Camera Test before reacting — or diving into a tough conversation.

And if others would see what you’re seeing… that’s your sign it’s time to talk.

We built The Accountability Upgrade™ to help you handle those moments with clarity and confidence. It’s free — make a copy and make it your own.